Will it play nicely?
Not every lube gets along with every toy. Pick yours below and we’ll tell you whether it’s a love match or a messy break-up.
1 What is your toy made of?
How do I find out what my toy is made of?
Check the box, or the product page where you bought it. Rule of thumb: silky-smooth is usually silicone, and soft, squishy and slightly tacky is usually jelly, TPE or rubber. Still stumped? Go for water-based lube. It’s the friendly one that gets along with nearly everyone.
2 Which lube are you eyeing?
General guidance only, not medical advice. Always check the packaging on your toy and your lube, patch-test on a small area first, and stop if anything stings or irritates. Trying for a baby? Many lubes aren’t sperm-friendly, so check the label. Got health worries? Ask a pharmacist or your GP. Rules for non-latex condoms (polyurethane or polyisoprene) can differ, so check the pack.
Questions you were too shy to ask
Can I use silicone lube on a silicone toy?
Best not to. Silicone on silicone can leave the surface gummy, tacky or marked over time. Most makers say don’t. Use water-based on the toy and save the silicone lube for skin.
What on earth is a hybrid lube?
A blend of water and silicone. It’s silkier and lasts longer than water-based, but because it contains silicone it’s not ideal for silicone or jelly toys.
Is oil-based lube safe with condoms?
No. Oil can weaken latex, and a weakened condom can break. If condoms are involved, stick to water-based or silicone-based.
How do I clean my toy afterwards?
Warm water and a mild unscented soap or a proper toy cleaner, then dry it thoroughly before putting it away. Always follow the maker’s instructions, especially for anything electronic.
Is a vaginal moisturiser the same as lube?
No. Moisturisers are for everyday comfort, and lubes are for playtime. Some products do a bit of both, so read the label.