Plain, discreet packaging on every order · Adults only (18+)

Gifts with a wink: for her, him, or the pair of you

Giving a naughty present is an art. Get it right and you are a legend; get it wrong and Christmas dinner gets awkward. Here is how to nail it.

For her: think treat, not task. Lingerie in a size she will actually fit (check the size notes), a gentle first vibrator, or a luxurious lube and massage set. If you are unsure of her taste, keep it playful rather than explicit.

For him: sleeves, rings and playful games are usually welcome. If you are buying for a partner, make it a shared joke rather than a hint.

For both: games, romance sets and couples’ toys are the safest bets, because they are about the two of you, not a statement about either one. Good for anniversaries, Valentine’s and hen or stag nights.

Three golden rules:

  1. Know their comfort zone. A cheeky card beats a surprise they are not ready for.
  2. Choose body-safe materials and add a lube. Practical gifts are the best gifts.
  3. Plain, discreet packaging is how we ship everything, so nothing embarrassing lands on the doormat.

Stuck? Browse Gifts With a Wink, or send us a message and we will help you pick.